Defusing Statements to Use in the Classroom


I am interested in what you have to say, but now is not the best time to discuss this. Tell me more after class?

I would really like to know what has made you so angry with me, can we chat about it after class?

Your actions tell me that you are really unhappy with something. Let me know if I can help in some way, or if you need a break.

I am not sure how to respond to that. Let me take a few minutes and I will come back to you

What should we do next?


I do need to give you an answer to that… but I am not sure what to say. Can you help me out?

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