Ideas for Argumentative Behaviour


Avoid “why?” questions
Diffuse power (joke, distraction)
“I” Statement, followed by clear direction
Acknowledge the student’s concern
Acknowledge the student’s feelings (frustration, anger)
Agree
Be calm!

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